So he says he’s too busy to call yet again? Most of us have been in at least one relationship like this in our dating experiences. The man we are with just always seems to have so much on his plate that he can’t spare a few moments to call and connect with us. It’s frustrating, not to mention disappointing, when you care about him and start to feel as though he’s neglecting you. Nagging obviously isn’t the way to get him to call, but is there anything that does work? There actually is. There are a few things you can do that will make him reach for the phone to call you more often.
If you’re with a guy and he says he’s too busy to call do you normally call him instead? If you do, you’re doing yourself a disservice. You’ll never get a man to call you if you are always picking up his slack. If he says he’ll call and then doesn’t because he claims to have gotten too busy, don’t call him. Whenever a woman chases a man down by calling him repeatedly she’s telling him in a very loud and clear way that she is desperate. What you must do if he says he can’t find the time to call you is to not call him. Regardless of how much time has passed since he’s last called, do not pick up the phone to call him.
In order to get a man to call you have to show him that you’re not sitting idly by the phone waiting for him. If he says he’s too busy to call that simply means that you’re not at the top of his priority list. In order to get at the top of the list you have to play a little hard to get which includes being unavailable. Never chase a man down if you want him to chase you. Calling him won’t make him call you. The only thing that will is not calling him at all.
You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he’s ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don’t let this happen to you.